What is the lesson

It seems like many of my friends and family are going through hardships right now in there life and I admittedly have been really judging their situations. However, the holy spirit has been convicting me because who am to judge someones situation. I don't know what they have gone through or what they are dealing with. I just plan to learn from their hardships, what is the Lord telling me about my situation. It's only by the grace of God I am where I am today and I know that at any moment all my wealth, health and peace could be stripped away. I challenge everyone to pray for others and learn from every situation.